"Do not be amazed at this for the hour is coming in which those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out."(John 5:28,29) This assurance from God, can help to comfort you during this difficult time for it offers you the wonderful hope of seeing your loved one again. So while you grieve, meditate on this loving promise and "Throw all your anxiety on him because he cares for you."(1 Peter 5:7) My condolences to the family."